At one time, my heart broke over this sex-addict. He was sleeping with prostitutes, going to gang bangs, whoring around with swingers, doing NSA chicks off Craigslist, and caning, whipping, flogging, spanking my ass.
Tell me there is nowhere to go but up from THAT shit …
Oh but indeed I managed to sink lower…..
My heart is presently ripping in two, because my latest relationship just went belly up; into thin air.
While he was passed out from drinking two pints of Vodka (his usual daily intake) I looked at his cell phone while he was passed out,
I know I know wrong on so many levels. And found he’d texted his buddy in San Fransisco asking if there are any conservative hot chicks there.
To which his buddy replied, “do you mind Asian girls?” He’s already procuring the next piece of ass while he’s sleeping off his hangover in my bed.
But he said he loved me and wanted to marry me, and I freakin trusted him! I freakin’drank the Kool-aid. He appears for his pre-trial divorce hearing in a few weeks, signed his parental rights away to his 3 kids, got thrown out of his parents house for acting like such a verbally abusive asshat, has no job because he resigned in a drunken stupor but by the time he reneged, they accepted, just got out of two detox’s in a row.
My mind and heart are on parallel courses.
I thought if I just showed him what love could be, what kindness could be, if I cleaned up his puke, held his hand through his Librium haze, tolerated his calling me denigrating names when he is shit faced…..
gave him the best head he ever had, kissed him from head to toe, read from the Big Book, prayed with him, booked his doctors appointments for him, reminded him to keep them, maybe he would see he had something good? WTF??
Even sadder, I still love him. And wish that at the end up the episode it could all work out and that he would get sober and stop lying. That we could live happily ever after in the Barbie Dream house with the convertible by the pool. But not…..with that fucking Skipper bitch.
Oh, please…like you’ve never had any train-wreck breakups….pfffftt.